Wholeheartedly believe and pay, and then be completely betrayed, used, and deceived by human nature, fall into disappointment with people, and finally look away, after recognizing the truth, still choose not to be afraid of being hurt to believe, this time is anti-fragile belief While doing a good job of risk management, be prepared to remain strong even if it is smashed again. I was talking to a friend today is a great entrepreneur must master the "sense of rhythm" , just like driving, when to renew, when to overtake, and when to change tires. There are so many things that are important, which one to put down first, when to speed up the staking, and when to slow down to practice internal skills, all need to be decided at the right time. Each stage has the first priority of each stage, what is the underlying structure of what is, and what is the first contradiction that affects the whole body should be clearly seen. The most taboo is the person who wants everything and is always chasing the special leads wind. Doing the "hard and right thing" also depends on timing. In fact, everyone has unrealistic expectations for people, and finally, the failure of expectations is usually the following situation: First of all, it’s raining after a long drought—for example, a single person has been looking for a partner, imagining that if he finds a partner, many of his problems will be solved, such as being happier, financially stable, accompanied by someone, traveling with someone the ordinary product manager. Later, I did find a person, and I was a lot happier. At that time, a lot of my reverie was pinned on this person, and I would say, "You are my hope! You have brought me a lot of happiness." As a result, I gradually discovered that the other party is not perfect, and may only meet one of my many needs. For example, people who take care of their family/self may not necessarily be able to “go out” in their careers, or they may not be able to talk to those who can satisfy them materially, and so on. After all, no two pieces are exactly the same, and two people are more like two spheres with a little hole, and they have to be tied together and rolled. Not only relationships, but also friends, children, and work.